Wednesday, September 13, 2017

I don’t have time for wasting, and neither does my homeschooled high school senior.

Homeschooling tends to be a journey of firsts, doesn’t it?

This year is no different. A couple of weeks ago, we did something with one of our homeschooled children that we’d never done before.

We let our twelfth grader test out of Grammar.

I’m a little embarrassed to admit that it was her idea.

Our first clue that perhaps this subject was going to be busy work was when the books arrived. The twelfth grade handbook was the same as the eleventh grade book. But, like the diligent, by-the-book educators that we tend to be, we started on it anyway.

A couple of weeks in to the curriculum, my twelfth grader came to me to say that she had already learned everything in the lessons. “Do I really have to do all these exercises just to identify subjects and verbs?”

“Review is an important part of learning, especially when you start a new school year,” I said. “But we can cross out some of the problems.”

{Please note that this is, in no way, an incrimination of our curriculum. Review really is an important part of learning. It’s just that our particular student had absorbed it all. Also, she is continuing with the composition part of the subject so she can get more practice in writing and research.}

A few days later, we found out that she qualified for the National Bible Bee Competition. For this, she would study, in-depth, a book of the Bible and memorize approximately 900 verses. Much time would be required for study if she hoped to make it to the final round where cash prizes and scholarships were awarded. First place takes $50,000 {no small amount for college!}, but the eternal prize is the knowledge of God’s Word.

It wasn’t difficult to know which held more value.

So she posed a solution. “If I can take Test 12 (the last test of the year) and pass it, can I just skip all of Grammar this year?”

“Is it comprehensive?”

“Yes, just like the other years.”

I consulted with my husband, our school principal J, and we quickly decided that if she could get an A, she could test out of that subject. If she already knew the material, why waste time on a year of review? Also, colleges allow students to test out of basic subjects all the time.

An afternoon of study later, she passed with a 99.5%, gleefully put the Grammar book back on the shelf, and began memorizing more Bible passages.




Have I mentioned recently how much I love homeschooling? J








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Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Back to Homeschool

It's one of my favorite times of year...back to homeschool!
















Notebooks full of fresh, blank pages waiting for ideas and inspiration.

Textbooks filled to overflowing with information about interesting things from around the world and about the world.

Classics of literature with casts of characters waiting to be met and befriended.

Pens of all colors, paperclips the same, freshly-sharpened pencils.

Late night conversations about politics, philosophy, faith, and what it means to be a human being.

Family field trips with lunch in the cooler and a dozen questions in each child's mind.


"Education is what remains after one has forgotten what one has learned in school." ~ Albert Einstein









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Tuesday, August 1, 2017

Deadly Disclosure is here…and the inspiration behind it

My second book is available today!



What is it about? I’m glad you asked!

FATAL FAMILY SECRETS

Getting shot at on her way to work is only the first shock of law student Hannah McClarnon’s day. The second is when FBI agent Derek Chambers—her first love—reveals the truth about Hannah’s family. Though Hannah was raised by a wealthy Indianapolis couple, her birth father was with the Chicago mafia. And now, convinced she has information against them, they’re hunting her down. Derek’s first big assignment is to protect Hannah, and it’s becoming more personal every minute. He’s never revealed why he left long ago, and he still believes Hannah deserves someone better. But with the enemy in relentless pursuit, he’ll risk his life to be the man she needs—and loves—again.


You've read in the back cover description that the heroine is adopted. This story is near and dear to me for one big reason: I'm adopted. I got the idea for the story when I was gathering my family's birth certificates to apply for passports. When I have anything written in my hands, I read it word for word. You can blame my love of reading as well as a legal education for that. 😊 That day, I thoroughly read each birth certificate, and I quickly noticed that there was a huge discrepancy between my date of birth and the date of issue of the birth certificate. I have always known I was adopted, so this didn't surprise me like it surprises Hannah McClarnon. That difference is the time it took for my adoption to be finalized and a new birth certificate with the names of my adoptive parents to be issued. As I examined my birth certificate, an idea began to form. What if someone discovered as an adult that she was adopted? What if there was danger in her birth family that found her even before she discovered she was adopted? From there, my imagination took off. Let me reassure you, then, that the similarities between me and Hannah are few. We are both adopted, and we both went to law school. The end. 😊

You can find it in stores near you or online. If you enjoy it, would you think about leaving a review on Amazon or posting on social media? It doesn’t even have to be more than one sentence, but it means so much to an author.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Lemonade Stand Lessons for Little Entrepreneurs

When I was about eight years old, I set up a lemonade stand in my front yard. I pulled down the large pitcher from the cupboard, retrieved the tin of lemonade mix from the pantry, measured and poured and stirred. I roped my brother into setting a table up for me and then painstakingly penned a poster to advertise my offering. One cup cost five cents, and I knew I was going to be rich by the end of the day.

An hour later, I had made two sales. (Did I mention that we lived on a quiet, circular street that didn’t get much traffic?) I quickly tired of the boredom, heat, and relentless sunshine. I was done.

A few decades later, I am now the mother of some enterprising young people who decided to sell lemonade.

If you’ve been following this blog for long, you know that my 84yo mother decided over the winter to sell her condominium and move into an independent-living apartment in a retirement village. It was a wise decision for her, but it involved the selling of many, many items.

For the second weekend of her estate sale, my children set up an old-fashioned lemonade stand, including cookies.





Whether the year is 1977 or 2017, many of the lessons remain the same, and it was a tremendous opportunity to talk with all six children about a few of the many, many things to consider when running a business.

Cost of materials. We figured out the cost of the lemonade, the water, the ice, the ingredients for the cookies, the poster board for the sign.

Cost of employees. The Littles thought they were running the lemonade stand and bringing home all the profits. But they needed the help of the big sisters who supervised the baking of the cookies and brownies. The Littles learned that saying, there’s no such thing as a free lunch. Employees cost money as well as other benefits, like taste tests. J

Cost of rent and utilities. They were quite appreciative that Grandma didn't charge anything for the use of a corner of her garage…but they learned that she had that right. J

Price of goods offered. Many considerations were necessary to decide what they would charge for lemonade and cookies: the cost of their materials, who their customer base might be, the location of the stand, and what the market determines to be appropriate for the goods offered.

Profit. Of course, this would have to be divided between the three entrepreneurs.

Taxes. This was a most interesting discussion of how taxes are figured, how they are paid, who determines the tax rate, and why we pay taxes.

Customer service.  The Littles learned that excellent customer service is of utmost importance. ~ Smile. Serve them promptly. Say thank you.

Keep your workstation clean and tidy. No one wants to buy lemonade or cookies from a messy table.

Keep your money safe. Because you just never know.

Politeness and common courtesy in the work environment. Yes, politeness is necessary with customers, but it’s also vital among the employees. No one wants to work in a hostile environment.

Marketing. How do you make potential customers aware of your business? In their situation, marketing consisted of a sign to make their goods attractive. {Mom marketed her estate sale.}

Tithe. The Littles gave ten percent of their profit to the church the next day.

At the end of the day, they came away with a number of lessons as well as a tidy profit of over $20. Perhaps I should resurrect my own childhood stand? 😊








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Wednesday, July 19, 2017

I don’t want to be a “Midas” woman {A Guest Post}

I am super-excited to have a guest today! My in-real-life friend, Valorie Quesenberry, posted the following thought on Facebook over the weekend. I was so taken by it that I knew I had to share it with you {with her permission, of course}. 

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I don't want to be a "Midas" woman . . . but my experience yesterday showed me how vulnerable I am.

In a land far away lived a woman with a very ordinary life. Everything about her life was average. And though she was used to her daily routine, she dreamed of differentness, of glamour, of being and having more.

One day, she was visited by a fairy who promised to grant her any wish of her heart. The woman already knew what she wanted. She asked the fairy to give her a “magic touch” so that everything she touched would be magically enhanced and look better, prettier, richer. The fairy cautioned her to consider her wish carefully, reminding her that simplicity is one of life’s unappreciated treasures. But our heroine’s mind was made up, so the fairy granted her wish.

She could hardly wait to try out her new gift. Walking into her living room, she touched her rather worn plaid couch. Immediately it became supple leather, rich brown and tastefully stitched. 

Delighted, she turned to the coffee table, the piano, the lamps and the picture on the wall. All day she glided from one room to the next, making her commonplace house into a showplace. In the master bedroom, she opened her closet and touched the garments, exchanging each one for something new and trendy. She went next to her dressing table and acquired exotic perfumes and high priced cosmetics. Catching a glance of herself in the mirror, she paused for a moment and then daringly touched her eyes, eyebrows, nose, lips, chin and hair. Zap! Her waist became svelte; her thighs smooth and sleek. The transformation was astonishing. She had traded average looks for supermodel beauty. She was ecstatic.

She was eager for her husband and children to come home, so excited with all the wonderful changes they would see. When the school bus stopped, she waited with a big smile. But when she opened the door, her children weren’t glad, but frightened. She reached out to them, wanting to reassure them that she was still Mommy.

But the instant her fingers touched their little faces, she realized her mistake. Before her eyes, the little ones whose images were imprinted on her soul morphed into beauty-pageant-like tots, their imperfect, lovable little features erased forever. With an agonizing cry, she sprang back, clawing at her own hands, begging the fairy to take back the gift. Too late she realized that happiness is found, not in something different or better, but in full appreciation of the blessings we already possess.

No one escapes the “Midas touch” desire. You and I may never have the opportunity to actually try it out, but it calls to us all the same. Underneath its glittery coat, it bears an ugly name – greed.


I felt the lure of the fairy just yesterday as I walked into a home decor superstore. Everywhere were things that were so beautiful, so trendy, so "Pottery Barn," so "me" or at least the look I want to define my home. I wanted to snatch this and that and the next thing. (and I also wanted to have the money to pay for it, of course!:)

But my past shopping forays tell me that I can never have enough to satisfy the hunger for the new and beautiful. I have been able to accumulate a few things that at the time were "all that" and now they are not enough. I want something different, something else. There is always something beautiful to allure my eyes.

I realized in a new way that I will never have so much that I don't hear the siren call for something new. This desire to embrace beautiful things must not become a curse. I must keep it in its rightful place. To this pull of the present, I must answer with the wisdom of the ages. The wisdom of the God of the ages.

" . . . beware of covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses.” Luke 12:15

I can learn to say "Right now, I have enough."


That's a life-changing phrase.

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Valorie is a pastor’s wife and writer, and you can find her blogging at The Q Scoop as well as on Facebook. Thank you, Valorie, for allowing me to share your writing here!








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Tuesday, July 11, 2017

Three Reasons to Homeschool During the Summer

Hi, my name is Meghan, and I’m addicted to homeschooling.

{Hi, Meghan.}

Not really! But judging by the looks we get when we admit that we’ve started school already, I think some people think so. In fact, we started in June.

I’m not advocating never taking a break. We had a three-week break in May when we traveled, and we’ll have another three-week break in August.

But, for our family, we don’t have a two-plus-month summer break. Here’s why ~


Too many skills are lost or forgotten over long breaks. Teachers deal with this reality every fall when students return to their desks. That’s why typically the first month of each new school year is spent in review. In fact, many of our local schools are now offering workbooks for students to take home for the summer. The pupils do a couple of pages each day to keep their skill set sharp.

When temperatures reach the upper 80s and 90s, the children don’t want to go outside. Quite frankly, I don’t blame them, especially with the humidity levels here in the Midwest. Sure, there are excellent indoor activities as well, and my children love to read, do puzzles, and play with Legos, among other activities. But too often, I hear the plaintive wail of “Can I watch a movie?” I absolutely do not want my children to spend a summer in front of a screen. Spending a little bit of time with school work helps make for a screen-free summer and still provides opportunities for making their own creative play. We save our time off for colder weather, our favorite time of year, when we can jump in piles of fall leaves and build snowmen.

It gives a jump start on the new school year and, thus, wiggle room for the future. You never really know what’s coming next in life. You can plan and prepare, but, too many times, we’re thrown a curve ball. When that happens, whether that unexpected event is good or bad, it can be helpful to have a few days of school in already. My 80+ year old mother decided, mid-year, to sell her condo, downsize, and move to an apartment in a retirement community. It was a wise decision, but it also took some time…cleaning out, listing the condo, selling a ton of stuff, deciding who is going to take which items, hauling things hither and thither, finding boxes, packing, unpacking. You know how that can go. But because we had started school earlier in the summer and had a few wiggle days, we were able to make the hour drive (each way) and help out several times.

If you have a lot of activities or commitments over the summer or if you take long family vacations, this may not work for you. I know some families take schoolwork on vacations, but I’d rather just leave it at home. That’s the true beauty of homeschooling, though. It can be arranged around your family’s needs.








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Monday, July 3, 2017

Winners of Deadly Disclosure!

{Affiliate links ahead.}

I’m a little late in posting the randomly-chosen winners, but I wanted to allow a bit more time for entries. Thanks for entering and thanks for reading!

Will you allow me another shameless plug for my August release, Deadly Disclosure? J




If you didn’t win, you can pre-order.

Or, you can sign up for my newsletter. I’ll be giving away a couple more copies in my next issue as well as listing the blog sites where I’ll be guest posting in August, each with a giveaway. Just fill in your email address in the box below and hit Subscribe.




I might just do another giveaway here as well, at release time....


And now, the three winners of Deadly Disclosure and a little sweet treat ~

Suanna

Cheryl Baranski

Dixie


Congratulations!

Please contact me with your mailing address, and I’ll get the books sent right out.


Have a safe and blessed Independence Day, my fellow Americans!











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